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Chapter 5: The biggest mistakes women make with their emotions and why men Love Girls ‘Cool’No secret is a compliment I’ve heard men give again and again to certain women when they are talking about it with other men, and finally I discovered what it means. It is a kind of ‘type code’; a male jargon unspoken, but universally understood.The men refer to some women called ‘cool girl’ or a ‘cold woman. ‘Have you ever heard a man say that? It may sound simple and shallow, but when men say this about a woman, we are talking about something much more tangible and interesting.So what code ‘cool girl’ a child means? In my experience, after leaving the hundreds of men and get the same general idea of what they mean when they say a ‘cool girl’, which means ‘certain social and emotional dynamics of women’ that resonate deeply with features the men.And most importantly, there is a subtle implication that the woman is someone that man would like to pass the time. To be close to everything this is a good experience fun and positive energy that man can relate to, and not any kind of thing than men for negative unfortunately associated with women who do not like.Yes, that’s right … women some men ‘bulge’ they do not like in a category, so when you are a woman and she remembers none of these women, who rejected automatically without giving the benefit of the doubt.A little sad, huh? But it happens. Have you ever had to talk about something that is very, or ’emotional’ about and the guy was talking to someone closely looked irritated, or initiated when for some unknown reason? This reaction was probably because the man is associated with a woman or her past experience.In fact, there is even a bigger stereotype that men promote: women are finding before ‘hysterical. ‘? It must be very frustrating to deal with.But back to the idea of ’cool girls. ‘What are you doing these women makes men look like that?After looking around, watching the way some behave cool ‘girls, I’ve seen some things that we all know and what we do not.Let’s start with the ‘Guide’.Cool Girls do not complain much or talk about things that are impossible for anyone to resolve the current situation.Cool Girls bring positive thoughts and feelings funny situations.Cool girls do not have to always be in control. They are willing to go with the flow when it comes to social things, but that statement when they have opinions and ideas.Cool Girls have options and things to do to keep them busy and content, so do not feel like they are excluded if they are not invited to something.
Cool Girls do not try to make a man do something if you say you do not want. Men prefer to make their own decisions.
When cool girls need help they are simple ways and you can not ask. super girls know that to get or ask for help, and report on it in a positive way means maintaining their own emotional agenda in the bay.Cool girls can handle almost any social situation. They do not get nervous or anxious about certain people, places and situations.Cool Girls do not need or ask too much of a man at a given time. They know that there’s always tomorrow.Cool Girls do not need a man to always validate their emotions and ideas.super girls are not afraid to be completely honest, and know the actual level of honesty is and sounds like (to a man).super girls know how they feel about themselves and how men feel about them speak.And here are not ‘cool’ girls.Do not minimize your feelings when you are really worried or upset about something. (Do not say, ‘good’ and then collapsed overnight.) Men have a sense of intuition as well, so do not lie about their feelings. Take time to observe your feelings and be patient with the way they are expressed, and consider what is the answer to your words come out of a man.
Do not exaggerate about what is going on around you or what a man is doing, unless you do it for a joke or tease him in a playful way. (Do not say, ‘You never want to do anything fun!’ If you feel aggravated that he just wants to stay home. A joke, a playful response would say with a smile, ‘My friends will be jealous when you hear about the bustling Saturday night we had! ‘)Do not say what you are feeling and experiencing. Think before you speak. (Yes, so your coworker downloaded a large project before going on holiday. Do you really need to take and complain that while you’re out at dinner? Would not it be better to just let go and enjoy the night ?)No bad situations, problems or problems of the past unless there is a total ‘must’ or extremely important and has not been able to talk about it. Otherwise, live in the present. (Do not keep bringing up that time when you were first dating and do not invite you to his party. That was months ago!)Do not try to force or persuade a man to talk about their feelings. He’ll think you’re being needy. (Men hate constantly responding, ‘what are you thinking and feeling at the moment?’)It is noteworthy that the goal is not to avoid having their feelings. It is vital for you to recognize and respect the feelings that come from within. But the goal is to reach a place where you can begin to see how you feel and make informed decisions using both emotion and intellect. The aim is to use your new emotional and intellectual wisdom before acting in certain situations.